Friday, November 29, 2013

Who's Toxic and Who's Not?

Said it once before now let me say it again..

Recognize the Real.

There are 7 toxic personality traits to look for.. These are also people that you need to run from.

The Critic.
The Drainer.
The Know it All.
The Needy.
The Whiner.
The Dream Killer.


The Critic.
This person
Almost always acts like they mean well, attempting to soften a horrible blow to the stomach.
Failing to realize that you don't feel well after they've finished with you.
This is the complete fool, that wants to criticize your art, but isn't artistic in any shape, form or fashion. Nothing is ever right..but wrong my dear..and well that's it.
 There is no Constructive to this criticizm because they never planned on adding any. They are at the utmost negative top my top seven of the most Toxic. They also attempt to add third parties to side with them. They stereotype, tell you who you are, and what to do with your life.. This also depletes your energy for wanting to overcome adversity. Bringing your entire being down in the depths of depression. You start to become the critic..resulting in low self esteem. 


The Drainer.
 basically needs a therapist.. These people zap all of the energy from you as if you ran three miles after talking to them.. They all sound like The sad Donkey Eeyore..and it's the same sob story..
Lacking character, they talk a lot!! Too much, like they don't have a friend in the world to drain, but you. Boastful braggers are draining, because they talk about material possessions like broke rappers.
Worst if you offer a solution to their problem, they refuse it to continue telling the same shit over, and over.. Like a go home, and shoot yourself type of manner.. You just wanna say shut up, or get the fuck somewhere..

The Know it ALL. Dream Killer
These character is funny, he's the broke dude who's telling you how to run your business.. He knows how to do anything, and everything yet does none of the above..
These people tend to lie a lot.. Because who knows everything?

They always have to have the last word, and they make you feel stressed after a light debate over the simplest of things. They also blame you when you're upset over something that they did to you. Extremely immature, backstabbing, he or she rubs your nose in good fortune.. Tries to add a third party to agree with them. It's all about winning the debate, even if everyone feels like a loser..
These people have a darkened understanding of the world around them, when combined with a drainer trait.. I can't stand this person, because they never shut up, and they always talk over you. If you dare argue with this absent minded zero common sense type element, prepare to hang up.. Walk away, or tell them to get the fuck out,, the end. Now you have the last word..

The Needy.

This is the broke ass that bums the cigarette everytime you see them,
and then they are the ones who get mad when you refuse.. The thing I've thought about with
These idiots is the fact that you don't owe them a damn thing.. You can never ask them for
anything because they never have anything to give you.. The borrower.. That never returns..
Calls you Faking like they wanted to see how you're doing.. Only to ask you for something before immediately ending the conversation.. I mentally put myself in the position of the needy. It's hopeless  and depressing to have to constantly ask someone for everything in order to live life.. Users.. Losers.

The Whiner.
This person is extremely easy to detect.. Mainly because everytime you talk to them,
they're complaining about everything.. AKA the cryer.. Run fast..they add problems to your
Problems.. They never listen to your concerns much like the know it all..externalizing every situation, canceling themselves out of every equation.




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