Tuesday, March 25, 2014

First Impression

When meeting someone new, we get a first impression. 

First impressions are everything.
When a guy over steps his boundaries by being aggressive, and over confident, he fails to realize that what he's doing is damaging to his Character.. 

Example: Inappropriate touching.. Uninvited invasion of personal space.. 

When this happens to me, I think about what type of a guy I'm dealing with.. 
Because if hes taking without asking in the beginning.. He will continue to take without asking.. 
Deny any wrong doing, an continue to overstep those boundaries.. 
It's an intimidation tactic, to see whether or not you are going to allow physical  contact without permission. Usually in the beginning. Because in the beginning, you're allowed him into your atmosphere.. and that alone gave him the freedom to take control.

If you're dealing with a Man, he would be conscious of boundaries, being thoughtful, and careful not to cross them


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