Friday, November 29, 2013

Who's Toxic and Who's Not?

Said it once before now let me say it again..

Recognize the Real.

There are 7 toxic personality traits to look for.. These are also people that you need to run from.

The Critic.
The Drainer.
The Know it All.
The Needy.
The Whiner.
The Dream Killer.


The Critic.
This person
Almost always acts like they mean well, attempting to soften a horrible blow to the stomach.
Failing to realize that you don't feel well after they've finished with you.
This is the complete fool, that wants to criticize your art, but isn't artistic in any shape, form or fashion. Nothing is ever right..but wrong my dear..and well that's it.
 There is no Constructive to this criticizm because they never planned on adding any. They are at the utmost negative top my top seven of the most Toxic. They also attempt to add third parties to side with them. They stereotype, tell you who you are, and what to do with your life.. This also depletes your energy for wanting to overcome adversity. Bringing your entire being down in the depths of depression. You start to become the critic..resulting in low self esteem. 


The Drainer.
 basically needs a therapist.. These people zap all of the energy from you as if you ran three miles after talking to them.. They all sound like The sad Donkey Eeyore..and it's the same sob story..
Lacking character, they talk a lot!! Too much, like they don't have a friend in the world to drain, but you. Boastful braggers are draining, because they talk about material possessions like broke rappers.
Worst if you offer a solution to their problem, they refuse it to continue telling the same shit over, and over.. Like a go home, and shoot yourself type of manner.. You just wanna say shut up, or get the fuck somewhere..

The Know it ALL. Dream Killer
These character is funny, he's the broke dude who's telling you how to run your business.. He knows how to do anything, and everything yet does none of the above..
These people tend to lie a lot.. Because who knows everything?

They always have to have the last word, and they make you feel stressed after a light debate over the simplest of things. They also blame you when you're upset over something that they did to you. Extremely immature, backstabbing, he or she rubs your nose in good fortune.. Tries to add a third party to agree with them. It's all about winning the debate, even if everyone feels like a loser..
These people have a darkened understanding of the world around them, when combined with a drainer trait.. I can't stand this person, because they never shut up, and they always talk over you. If you dare argue with this absent minded zero common sense type element, prepare to hang up.. Walk away, or tell them to get the fuck out,, the end. Now you have the last word..

The Needy.

This is the broke ass that bums the cigarette everytime you see them,
and then they are the ones who get mad when you refuse.. The thing I've thought about with
These idiots is the fact that you don't owe them a damn thing.. You can never ask them for
anything because they never have anything to give you.. The borrower.. That never returns..
Calls you Faking like they wanted to see how you're doing.. Only to ask you for something before immediately ending the conversation.. I mentally put myself in the position of the needy. It's hopeless  and depressing to have to constantly ask someone for everything in order to live life.. Users.. Losers.

The Whiner.
This person is extremely easy to detect.. Mainly because everytime you talk to them,
they're complaining about everything.. AKA the cryer.. Run fast..they add problems to your
Problems.. They never listen to your concerns much like the know it all..externalizing every situation, canceling themselves out of every equation.




Sunday, November 24, 2013

Answer this Question.

Who are you?

A stranger who remains a stranger.

A man who never lets you in is a stranger indeed.

I come across many men who seemingly reveal themselves. But in reality they only reveals minimal amount of information about themselves. As if there was something to hide. See men have lots of emotions, but they guard them as if they could easily lose them. 

I had recently men a guy who seemed happy, joked with me and spoke deeply about what he thought about the world, and religion. But when it came to talking about emotions he changed the subject so many times to get the attention off of himself that I became frustrated with my attempts. Ok felt as if I had to trick him into revealing his emotions.
But see the more I tried convince him that he was avoiding the questions I had asked him the more frustrated I became..
I soon realized that he lacks the ability to talk about his feeling, and in doing this it created a distance between us. Like we spoke two different languages. He insulted my intelligence as if I were a child. Completely missing the point I was attempting to make before he spoke over me. 

He told me that I was acting like a man and attempting to dominate me.. One thing he told me that I will never forget is that he was abused by his Mother, moreover he was raised by his Father. He had his own views as to what role a Woman should play. 

See as long as I agreed with him the conversation would flow, but if I disagreed with him everything went down south. In my mind I was thinking.. what type of Woman would deal with this madness.. 
The answer is.. none.. He had told me that he had been single for 8 years.. 
Now eight years is a very very long time.. Almost a decade he had been single..
The thing is, he was completely oblivious of this information.

It's ironic that I always seem to bump into this type of Muslim Brother. The kind who wants to raise a Woman who's already been raised by her Father, to be his Wife.. These are always the Men who have 
Been raised by Men..

My questions are will he ever respect a Woman or look at them as equals if he was abused by a Woman, and raised by a Man.? In his eyes I was too dominant, by having my own opinion of his characteristics.. They were familiar to me... A man who really doesn't want to be known, wanting to remain there.. Just so he can remain unknown.. Negative in everyday, even his tone of voice was dominating.. 
I don't know what type of a relationship he had 8 years ago, but I bet a million dollars that it was a rocky one.. glad I didn't go far PEACE NEGRO.


Thursday, November 7, 2013

I saw the.. Kill Shot..and Date of Shuttle Crash..

Is this The End in 3/3/2014



I can't stand bad news, more than that.. It's hard enough to have the ability to see things that only you can see.. 

There's supposed to be a very sad time for us coming soon. I don't wanna see it.. 
I saw it.. Fire balls coming from the sky crashing into us.. 
a Shuttle coming from the Sky.. It looks like it's trying to land but instead the front of it crashes into the Earth.. 

One big Orange explosion.. and then I get a date.. 3/3/14 

When the three's line up again.. There's going to be Chaos?
I'm only hoping that I'm wrong.. Wishing that I'm wrong.. 
I want to be wrong.. I'm hoping that this is all a dream.,.. and that we will all wake up from it very soon.. But that's just it.. 



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